
The Afro-Peruvian Woman Who Started Telling the Story She Couldn’t Find
Natalia Barrera Francis did not have to invent an Afro-Peruvian history. It was already there. Generations of Afro-Peruvian people had lived, worked, created, struggled, raised families, made music, built communities and helped [...]

Survivor Affirmation: I Was Not Raised with Silver Spoons, But with Iron Will
๐ Affirmation ๐
I was not raised with silver spoons, but with iron will.The hood taught me rhythm, resilience, and how to breathe through storms.I honor the struggle, but I am not chained to it.I move forward with the fire of m [...]

Gary, Indiana Needs Us Right Now: Here Is How You Can Help
Gary, Indiana is hurting.
On August 11, 2026, powerful storms tore through Northwest Indiana with winds reported as high as 99 miles per hour. Trees came down. Utility poles snapped. Homes were damaged. Electricity disapp [...]

Before MTV: The Hidden Story of the First Black Music Video and the Legacy It Built
Thereโs something powerful about this moment in history.Not just the musicโbut the intention behind it.Movement. Precision. Style. Storytelling before the world even had language for it.
This wasnโt just a performance.It was di [...]

๐ต Tennessee: A Prayer for the Weary Soul
I miss the days when there was prayer in hip hop. Vulnerability in hip hop. And baring of the weary sick and tired soul in hip-hop.
โLord, Iโve really been real stressed, down and out, losinโ groundโฆโ
Those fir [...]

Michael Wright Gave Black Audiences Something Hollywood Still Struggles to Give Us
I am genuinely saddened by the passing of actor Michael Wright.
His family has confirmed that Wright died on August 19, 2026, in Los Angeles. He was 70 years old. His remarkable career stretched across nearly five decades, wi [...]

For the Hate Crimes Prevention Act: Affirmations for Black People Carrying Too Much Hate from Too Many Directions
racism chases us down for miles.....
On this day, the anniversary of Theย Matthew Shepard and James Byrd, Jr. Hate Crimes Prevention Act whichย was signed into law by President Barack Obama onย October 28, 2009. It expanded fede [...]

Finding Your Anchor: How to Prioritize What Matters in Times of Chaos
Man speaks out after climbing 19-story building during fire looking for his mother
In times of uncertainty, it is easy to feel pulled in a dozen directions by the noise of the world. This post is a gentle reminder t [...]

Sometimes Healing Has Four Paws: How Pets Can Help Us Through Grief.
Grief does not always announce what it needs.
Sometimes we think we need answers. Sometimes we think we need to be left alone. Sometimes we bury ourselves in work, exercise, responsibilities, television, or anything else [...]
After Jason Arday: Black People Must Be Allowed to Be Human
โThe question is not whether racism exists, but how it manifests.โ Ta-Nehisi Coates
Can you make it past this phrase? I'm having a hard time doing so.
โCambridgeโs diversity poster boy.โ
They called that Black man a boy. [...]

Before We Called It Therapy, Black Folks Had the Stage
There is an old kind of healing that many Black Americans know, even if nobody ever gave it a clinical name.
Some of us met it in a church basement.
Some met it underneath hot stage lights in the school auditorium.
Some [...]
Do Not Mistake a Blackout for a Lack of Black American Talent
Is "Woke" Just the Newest Word for an Old Fear? A History. - WE Survive Abuse
One unfortunate reality of anti-Black American racism specifically is periods of blackouts. Take heart with these affirmations. Keep creating your [...]

BLACK GIRL, YOUR CREATIVITY HAS TRAVELED THE WORLD ๐๐ค
Look around.
Hair.
Fashion.
Dance.
Music.
Language.
Beauty.
Humor.
Style.
So much of what Black communities have created has traveled farther than the people who first imagined it could h [...]

SHE DIDN’T HAVE TO REPRESENT EVERY BLACK GIRL ๐ค
This may be one of the greatest gifts of having many Black girls in our stories.
Laura could be Laura.
Ashley could be Ashley.
Moesha could be Moesha.
Tootie could be Tootie.
Rudy could be Rudy.
One girl didn't [...]

WE GREW UP WITH THEM ๐ค
There's something tender about realizing that some of the Black girls we watched on television aren't girls anymore.
Neither are we.
Kim Fields.
Janet Jackson.
Regina King.
Keshia Knight Pulliam.
Tatyana Ali.
[...]

BLACK GIRLHOOD CAME IN MORE THAN ONE SHADE ๐ค
Look back at the Black girls many of us watched growing up.
Kim Fields.
Regina King.
Keshia Knight Pulliam.
Tempestt Bledsoe.
Kellie Shanygne Williams.
Tatyana Ali.
Brandy.
Countess Vaughn.
Reagan Gome [...]

REMEMBER THE BLACK GIRL BEST FRIENDS? ๐
Not every Black girl on television was the star.
Some were the friend who walked through the front door without knocking.
The classmate at the locker.
The cousin.
The neighbor.
The girl sitting beside somebody at [...]

BLACK TEENAGE GIRLS HAVE AMAZING STORIES ๐บ
Before Moesha was writing in her journal, other Black teenage girls had been growing up on our television screens, because Black girls have amazing stories.
Tootie had crushes.
Brenda was finding her way.
Vanessa was te [...]

THEY LET BLACK GIRLS BE LITTLE GIRLS ๐
There was something precious about watching Rudy Huxtable.
Olivia Kendall.
Judy Winslow.
And the little Black girls who appeared across the sitcoms many of us grew up watching.
They got to be children.
Not symbols [...]
AFFIRMATIONS AND SELF LOVE
โThey keep calling me namesโฆ does that make it true?โ (No, and hereโs why it doesnโt.)
Let them talk.
Let them build stories out of shadows.
Let them sculpt their own fears into your silhouette
and call it truth. [...]
HEALING JOURNEY
BLACK GIRLS WE GREW UP WITH ๐บ๐ค
Before many of us knew the word โrepresentation,โ we knew the feeling.
We knew what it meant to turn on the television and see a Black girl there.
[...]
Your Fall Pain Reducing Anti-Inflammatory Recipes Most Everyone Can Prepare
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๐ฟ Josephine Baker: She Found a Place Where She Could Breathe
Josรฉphine Bakerย did not just โmove to France.โ
She left a place that constrained herโฆand stepped into a place that, for a time, allowed her to expand [...]
The Missing Link in Healing Trauma: Somatic Awareness
Many Survivors carry trauma not just in memories, but in their muscles, breath, posture, and stillness. This snippet reveals how real healing be [...]
CONFIDENCE/POWER/RESILIENCE
Survivor Affirmations: History Remembers What is Rooted in Truth, Love, and Dignity.
American fashion icon Dapper Dan shares the history of the Adinkra symbol 'Sankofa' in Harlem, New York (& other places around the United St [...]
Survivor Affirmations Inspired by The Joy Luck Club (with audio book)
Thereโs something sacred aboutย The Joy Luck Club.Not just the storyโbut the witnessing. The layering. The quiet truths that refuse to stay buried.
Le [...]
Black Culture is SO Beautiful
Black culture is truly a wonderful vibe. Being Black is a beautiful blessing I wouldnโt trade for anything in the world!
Dear God, thank You for th [...]
My Story Doesnโt Need Their Permission to Matter
SurvivorAffirmations.com | Inspired by WeSurviveAbuse.com
Some people will never believe youโnot because your story isnโt true,but because acceptin [...]
HEALTHING JOURNEY
โ๐พ Affirmations to Rebuild Trust in Yourself After Abuse
Because you were never brokenโjust interrupted. Now, you rise.
I am learning to trust my inner voice again. It never left meโit was o [...]
๐ธ Groovy Affirmations: Becoming Beautiful to Myself, for Myself
The more I become myself, the more I become art.
ย I create my own rhythm of beautyโno mirrors required.
My reflection is a remix of every less [...]
Survivor Affirmations: I Love Myself Because I am Worthy of Love! (video and audio)
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I love myself because I am worthy of love.
I respect myself and the healing journey that I have taken to bring me to thi [...]
The Bold Choice to Live AND Thrive
Tyka said I could, so I did. -Prince (Tyka Nelson was Prince's sister who recently passed away)
Notice how people speak about sacrifices made for art [...]
A Juneteenth Reflection for SurvivorAffirmations: Not a Bill. A Bridge.
Some of us grew up hearing about sacrifice in ways that hurt.
โI did everything for you.โ
โAfter all I gave up.โ
โYou owe me.โ
Tho [...]
She Is AMAZING
Congolese Women, Sacred Knowledge, and Spiritual Leadership: A Gentle Introduction
There is a quiet truth that has always existed, even when it wasnโt written down.
Across the lands now known as the Democratic Republic of the Cong [...]
Lessons from Pam Grier’s Memoir for Survivors
updated from December 2024
I love it when women tell our own stories in our own words!
When Pam Grier's memoir came out...I [...]
Bridget Mason From Slave To Richest Landowning Los Angeles Resident
โLike Biddy Mason, I rise from chains to choices.โ
โI build wealth not just for myself, but as a legacy for generations.โ
โMy past [...]
Different Go-Go, Same Refusal to Disappear into Misery
I just discovered something beautiful.
There are two kinds of โGoGo.โ
One was born in Washington, DC.
One comes from Tanzania.
And somehow [...]
The Forgotten Scientist Who Cured Leprosy โ The Story of Alice Ball (w/affirmations)
The Forgotten Scientist Who Cured Leprosy โ The Story of Alice Ball: A pioneering woman's life cut short before she reached her full potential and los [...]
Artist Jossie Harris Thacker: Building On Where You Come From โ Without Going To War With It
Some of us were taught that โhealingโ means disowning everything that shaped us.
The accent.The neighborhood.The elders.The songs.The faith.The grit. [...]
ART HEALS
Hidden Black Film Herstory: Stompin at the Savoy | Directed by Debbie Allen
Sometimes Black womenโs films are praised for being โnice,โ โnostalgic,โ or โbeloved,โ while the craft gets undercounted. Stompinโ at the Savoy was no [...]
9 Quotes from Maya Angelou to Nourish the Survivor’s Soul (Part 2)
Updated for 2025
๐ Resilience & Strength
โYou may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced [...]
๐ต Tennessee: A Prayer for the Weary Soul
I miss the days when there was prayer in hip hop. Vulnerability in hip hop. And baring of the weary sick and tired soul in hip-hop.
โ [...]
When Reality Is Contested: How Survivors Protect Their Truth in Controlled Narratives
Itโs about trust in what is real.Itโs about who gets to define truth.Itโs about whether change is organic or imposed.And itโs about whether people are [...]
JOURNALING/WRITING IN A HEALTHIER WORLD
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