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Tammi Terrell’s Story Reminds Us That Survival Is More Than Staying Alive
When people speak about Tammi Terrell, they often begin with how young she was when she died.
Twenty-four.
They talk about the brain tumor. The interrupted career. The songs she never got to record. The future that was cut sho [...]

7 Reasons Survivors May Want to Read Taraji P. Hensonās Around the Way Girl
Sometimes the books that stay with Survivors aren't the ones written specifically about surviving.
Sometimes they are simply somebody telling the truth about her life.
Taraji P. Henson's memoir, Around the Way Girl, was pu [...]

Angie Stone, Roberta Flack & Gwen McCrae: The Power of Their Musical Legacy
Angie Stoneās Music Pulled Us ThroughāAnd Now, Sheās Gone.
Angie Stone has passed, and somehow, it still doesnāt feel real.
During one of my lowest valleys, her music became my guide, my comfort, my reassurance that I [...]

The Wishing Tree With Alfre Woodard: A Beautiful Movie About Finding Your Way Home + Full Movie
Sometimes you want a movie that doesn't demand everything from you.
Something you can put on while folding clothes, answering emails, working on a project, cooking dinner, or finally dealing with that pile of papers that has [...]

How Singing is Surprisingly Good for Your Health
There's a vocal teacher on Youtube that I love, and I wanted to share her with you. Kristel Cherelle's approach reminds me of our choir teachers back in school who had faith in our ability to sing if only we understood technique [...]

10 Lessons Women Can Take From Star Jones, Al Reynolds, and Everybody Who Had Something to Say
There was a time when Star Jones and Al Reynolds seemed to be everywhere.
The proposal came at the 2004 NBA All-Star Game. Then came the enormous wedding, the vendors, the publicity, the photographs, the commentary and eventu [...]

7 Survival Lessons From Eve: Your Life Is Allowed to Have More Than One Act
Some chapters prove you can survive. Others remind you that survival was never supposed to be the whole story.
I love Eve's music.
Let me get that out of the way because, obviously. Tambourine. Love Is Blind. Let Me Blow Y [...]

Vanessa Williams Refused to Become the Worst Thing People Said About Her
Deal with yourself as a individual, worthy of respect, and make everyone else deal with you the same way. -Nikki Giovanni
It was 1984, and Vanessa Williams was surrounded.
Only months earlier, she had made history as the f [...]

Some People Don’t Wait for Affirmation. They Give It to Themselves.
They did not wait for the world to settle the question of their worth. They kept something sacred for themselves: the authority to know who they were.
There is an old story about Diana Ross. "Call her Miss Ross."
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There Are No Children Here: When Survival Makes a Child Grow Up Too Soon
In 1993, Oprah Winfrey starred in a television movie called There Are No Children Here. She played LaJoe Rivers, a Black mother raising her children in Chicagoās Henry Horner Homes, a public housing development where violence, p [...]

Survivor Affirmations: You Are Not Too Late for Your Own Life
Maybe the life you imagined for yourself was supposed to happen by now.
That is the part we don't always say out loud.
You thought you would have written the book by now. Started the business. Finished school. Traveled. Ma [...]
Steve Harvey Survived the Closed Door Because It Wasn’t His Only Door
There is something Steve Harvey has been saying lately that I think is worth hearing beyond the celebrity story.
Harvey has spoken about conflict he experienced with a powerful television executive and what he believes ha [...]

You Remember the Beat. But Do You Remember What Chubb Rock Was Saying?
I have been thinking about Chubb Rockās āTreat āEm Rightā.
Maybe it is because I keep hearing people talk about hip-hop as though an entire generation of Black music can be summarized by the worst words anybody ever said on a [...]

Bob Mackie Set Beauty Free: Remembering a Designer Who Knew How to……
Before Bob Mackie dressed Diana Ross, Tina Turner, Cher, Dolly Parton and some of the most famous women in entertainment, Black women were already d-r-e-s-s-e-d.
Look at photographs of Black Americans from the 1920s, ā30s and [...]

Why Does He Get Angry When Youāre Happy? When Your Joy Becomes a Problem in a Controlling Relationship
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Why womenās laughter has long been treated as a threat | Psyche IdeasĀ
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There is a scene television loves to give us before a man becomes violent with a [...]

Florida A&M Marching 100: They Gave Dolly Parton Her Flowers Like Black HBCU Bands Do
A great Black marching band performance is not casual praise. It is labor as praise.
Somebody had to arrange ā9 to 5ā for that instrumentation. Musicians had to learn their individual parts. Sections had to rehearse until they [...]

Dance is a Weapon, a Womb, and a Journey Back to Ourselves
They tried to bury us, but they didnāt know we were seeds. And we dance where they tried to end us.ā
Across time and across oceans, African peoples have danced through grief, joy, resistance, and survival. For us, dance has n [...]

Your Usefulness is Something You Give. Your Worth is Something YOU Have.
Sometimes people, even high-profile people push their fans and admirers away because THEY realize that they were performing and trying to earn love. They realize that the person that others loved wasn't the "real" them.
No, [...]
Survivor Affirmations: Solidarity is Reciprocal
Where did people get this bizarre idea that solidarity doesn't require respect and reciprocity...at a minimum?
If you are able, you definitely want to avoid allowing people to recruit you for battles and wars AND TH [...]

Sugar Ray Leonard Knew How to Fight. That Did Not Mean He Held the Power
Sugar Ray Leonard knew how to fight. By his early twenties, the quiet kid from Palmer Park, Maryland, had become an Olympic gold medalist, and professional boxing would make his hands famous around the world. He would defeat men [...]
AFFIRMATIONS AND SELF LOVE
I Deserve Safety. Not Spectacle.
SurvivorAffirmations.com | Inspired by WeSurviveAbuse.com
Youāre not here to entertain their curiosity.Youāre not here to be pi [...]
HEALING JOURNEY
Surviving Is Still SacredāEven If They Clap for the Wrong Person
SurvivorAffirmations.com | Inspired by WeSurviveAbuse.com
You saw them cheer.You heard the applause for the one who harmed someone.You watched them [...]
PBS Newshour: A Brief But Spectacular take on living like we’re dying
To love deeply is to live joyfully.
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The Fire Comes Back: What Happens When You Finally Feel Safe
For a long time, it was survival.
You moved through your days like a soldierāalert, braced, eyes scanning, body tight, heart tired.
You were here. [...]
The Missing Link in Healing Trauma: Somatic Awareness
Many Survivors carry trauma not just in memories, but in their muscles, breath, posture, and stillness. This snippet reveals how real healing be [...]
Artist Jossie Harris Thacker: Building On Where You Come From ā Without Going To War With It
Some of us were taught that āhealingā means disowning everything that shaped us.
The accent.The neighborhood.The elders.The songs.The faith.The grit. [...]
š Co-Regulation: When Safety Is Built Together
There is a sacred kind of healing that doesn't come from being alone.
It comes from someone else's steady breath beside yours.A hand that doesnāt fli [...]
CONFIDENCE/POWER/RESILIENCE
The Day the Women Came Together: The Nigerian Womenās War of 1929
It began with a question at a womanās home.
Not a battlefield. Not a government building. Not a grand speech delivered before thousands of peop [...]

Artist Jossie Harris Thacker: Building On Where You Come From ā Without Going To War With It
Some of us were taught that āhealingā means disowning everything that shaped us.
The accent.The neighborhood.The elders.The songs.The faith.The grit. [...]
HEALTHING JOURNEY
Sometimes Integrity Gets You Removed: And That Doesnāt Mean You Were Wrong
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India.Arie Sings “I Am Light”: Plus 10 of Her Affirmations
"I Am Light" ā India.Arie
The Vibe: A holy, minimalist prayer. Stripped down to just acoustic guitar and vocals, you are not your piecesāyou are di [...]
The Sacred Right to Be Unapologetic
They raised us on a steady diet of sorry.
Sorry for being too loud.Sorry for taking up space.Sorry for saying no.Sorry for wanting more.Sorry for not [...]
10 Gentle Ways to Grow Toward Accepting Your Flaws
šæ You donāt have to be perfect to be powerful. You only have to be real.
For many Survivors, the pressure to be flawless wasnāt just emotionalā [...]
Soul Train: Where art became cross-cultural language
Soul Train. Soullll Train. The hippest trip in America.
Ā I was in front of my television nearly every Saturday morning and pouted when I couldn't be. [...]
She Is AMAZING
Survivor Affirmations Inspired by The Joy Luck Club (with audio book)
Thereās something sacred aboutĀ The Joy Luck Club.Not just the storyābut the witnessing. The layering. The quiet truths that refuse to stay buried.
Le [...]
Survivor Affirmations: Musical Empowerment for Women
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50 Things to Talk About Instead of Black Womenās Hair (Because Your Concern is Not Genuine)
Letās be honestāBlack womenās hair has been politicized, policed, and prodded at for far too long. Weāve worn it straight, coiled, locked, twisted, [...]
Why Does He Get Angry When Youāre Happy? When Your Joy Becomes a Problem in a Controlling Relationship
Inspired by.......
Why womenās laughter has long been treated as a threat | Psyche IdeasĀ
Posted by Amy Diehl, Ph.D on X.com
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BLACK TEENAGE GIRLS HAVE AMAZING STORIES šŗ
Before Moesha was writing in her journal, other Black teenage girls had been growing up on our television screens, because Black girls have amazing st [...]
ART HEALS
Theme Music Playlist for the Storms
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Sometimes Your Haters Are Your Unpaid Strength Coaches
Angel went straight to the source at the end of the game š
I smiled when I saw Angel Reese acknowledge people who had been heckling her from th [...]
Surviving Abuse Daily: I Can’t Do This Without Laughing
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10 Facts About Lift Every Voice and SING!
So my childhood was spent learning this song. We sang this and other songs like it for assemblies. I get out into the world and learn not only have ot [...]
JOURNALING/WRITING IN A HEALTHIER WORLD
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