Sometimes Your Haters Are Your Unpaid Strength Coaches (updated for additional evidence of greatness)
Angel went straight to the source at the end of the game š
updated from July/2026
Listen, I love seeing female athletes reject that "sugar and spice and everything nice" stuff pushed on young ladies. If the "everything nic [...]

Gabourey Sidibe Dancing Through Jennifer Hudson’s Spirit Tunnel Is the Kind of Joy We Love to See
Now, wait a minute. Did y'all know Gabourey Sidibe could dance like THAT?
Because I knew she was a talented actress. I knew she was beautiful, funny, and had personality for days. But watching her come through Jennifer Hudson [...]
Joy for the Journey: Keke Palmer and Son Leo Recreate “Scream” for Halloween
āScreamā by Michael Jackson and Janet Jackson is one of the most underrated sibling collaborations in popular music. And I think part of what makes it special is that neither artist had to shrink to make room for the other.
Rel [...]

Bernie Mac Didn’t Become a Star Overnight: 8 Life Lessons About Dreams, Starting Late, and Living Fully.
In the Black American community, there is an endless supply of undiscovered talent. I remember hearing about Bernie Mac telling an entire audience that they were not going to boo him off the stage because he was not scared of th [...]

Dionne Warwick: Why Reinvention Doesn’t Have an Expiration Date
From Valley of the Dolls to Heartbreaker, the remarkable career of a woman who kept growing
One of the things I find fascinating about Dionne Warwick is how easy it is to know her music without realizing just how long she has [...]

Amel Larrieux: A Soft Voice, a Soulful Spirit, and the Strength to Be Yourself
Some singers have voices that shake the room. Others have soul-filled voices that make you lean in a little closer. Amel Larrieux belongs to that second group.
I've always appreciated her voice. It's soft, airy, soulful, and [...]

I Deserve More Than Survival: 15 Healing Affirmations for Survivors Reclaiming Peace, Joy, and Pleasure
There comes a time when you may begin noticing the little things again.
The smell of fresh flowers. Music playing in the kitchen. The comfort of clean sheets. A warm bath after a long day. The sound of your own laughter when [...]

Miriam Makeba and the Sound of Home: How Music Helps Us Carry What We Love
The extraordinary South African singer who carried her heritage across the world
There are certain sounds that take us home.
A song your mother used to play. A hymn from the church where you grew up. The sound of a familia [...]

Affirmation: I am not required to make myself smaller so that difficult truths remain hidden.
9 Quotes from Maya Angelou to Nourish the Survivor’s Soul (Part 1)
Updated for 2025
šæ For the Survivorās Journey
1. āThere is no greater agony than bearing an untold story inside you.ā
2 [...]
Affirmation: I will not confuse submission produced by fear with love freely given.
Edward Crawford Jr. Tried to Protect Children in Ferguson. We Should Remember His Story.
Remembering Edward Crawford Jr., Darren Seals, and the Ferguson protesters whose lives and deaths deserve more than silence.
There is a photograph [...]
You Remember the Beat. But Do You Remember What Chubb Rock Was Saying?
I have been thinking about Chubb Rockās āTreat āEm Rightā.
Maybe it is because I keep hearing people talk about hip-hop as though an entire generat [...]
šæ Josephine Baker: She Found a Place Where She Could Breathe
JosĆ©phine BakerĀ did not just āmove to France.ā
She left a place that constrained herā¦and stepped into a place that, for a time, allowed her to expand [...]
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Affirmation: I can forgive without restoring unsafe access.
Beyond Survival: Claiming Your Healed Identity After Abuse (podcast/audio)
This episode of We Survive Abuse isn't just about surviving; it's about *thriving*.
After navigating the challenging path to recover [...]

š¶ Choose Love, Joy, Hope (w/video)
š¶ Choose Love, Joy, Hope
Hate makes little ditties āshort, sharp, and forgettable.But joy?Joy makes songs that reach the bones.Songs that bring p [...]
Youāre Not Too MuchāPerhaps, Theyāre Not Enough
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Dear Survivor,
Theyāll say youāre too loud.Too proud.Too bright.Too deep.Too spiritual.Too intense.Too sensitive.Too [...]
Iām Not Crazy. Iām Just Done Being Gaslit.
SurvivorAffirmations.com | Inspired by WeSurviveAbuse.com
They say you're āangry.āThey say you're ātoo sensitive.āThey say you're āmaking it all abou [...]
Affirmation: My safety matters even when protecting it disappoints other people.
šŗ Frida Kahlo: She Lived in a Body That Hurtāand Still Created Beauty
Ā For a long time I celebrated Frida's art and had no idea she lived in pain. I was truly spellbound by the art. As a young person, I thought the art w [...]
Wellness Journaling Prompts: I Thrive
Wellness Journaling Prompts: I Thrive by Tonya GJ Prince [...]
Soul Music Connects to Your Soul and Your Spirit
āSoul music is true to its name. It's music that connects to your soul, your spirit. ⦠when people can emotionally connect with something or it helps [...]
šæ Affirmation Post: āI Am Becoming Who I Neededā
A sacred declaration for Survivors stepping into their wholeness.
I am no longer trying to return to who I was before the harm.She didnāt have [...]
Strategies for Dealing with Stress
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10 Facts About Lift Every Voice and SING!
So my childhood was spent learning this song. We sang this and other songs like it for assemblies. I get out into the world and learn not only have ot [...]
Affirmation: I will not call suffering sacred merely because someone taught women to endure it quietly.
Survivor Affirmations Inspired by The Joy Luck Club (with audio book)
Thereās something sacred aboutĀ The Joy Luck Club.Not just the storyābut the witnessing. The layering. The quiet truths that refuse to stay buried.
Le [...]
Elizabeth Packard: The Woman They Called Insane Until She Changed the Law
Elizabeth Packard was not simply a āwronged wife.ā
She was a mother. A thinker. A religious dissenter. A wife under the rule of a husband who belie [...]
Different Go-Go, Same Refusal to Disappear into Misery
I just discovered something beautiful.
There are two kinds of āGoGo.ā
One was born in Washington, DC.
One comes from Tanzania.
And somehow [...]
Mama I Love You: Women Are Amazing, Unique, and Special!
Tyron Woodleyās mother congratulates Kamaru Usman at UFC 235
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"It's all good, baby. It's all good. It's your turn. It [...]
Hidden Black Film Herstory: Stompin at the Savoy | Directed by Debbie Allen
Sometimes Black womenās films are praised for being ānice,ā ānostalgic,ā or ābeloved,ā while the craft gets undercounted. Stompinā at the Savoy was no [...]
Ketty Lester: Honor the Firsts, Remember the Closed Doors
Ketty Lester deserves more than a passing mention. She deserves the kind of appreciation that slows the room down.
Born Revoyda Frierson in Hope, Ark [...]
Affirmation: I am not here to make domination look like harmony.
When Being Yourself Is Labeled āPoliticalā: Why some people are punished simply for showing up
Nat King Cole really was attacked on stage during a concert in Birmingham, Alabama, in 1956.
While performing at the Municipal Auditorium in Birmingh [...]
Artist Jossie Harris Thacker: Building On Where You Come From ā Without Going To War With It
Some of us were taught that āhealingā means disowning everything that shaped us.
The accent.The neighborhood.The elders.The songs.The faith.The grit. [...]
Black Classics Reading List Created by Chelsea Yvonne
In the spirit of Juneteenth, free your mind!Ā
These Black literary classics are worth a read or re-read.Ā
Gratitude to Chelsea Yv [...]
Big Mama Thornton: I Stand Up for Myself As Long As I Can
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Affirmation: I can have compassion without surrendering discernment.
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