✨ Survivor Affirmation ✨ You Are Not a Waiting Room

You are not a waiting room for people to come and go as they please.
You are not a rest stop for those who disappear when it’s time to show up.
You are not a backup plan. Not a rebound. Not an afterthought.

You are not here to hold space for people who never make space for you.

Every time you keep yourself open for someone who doesn’t value you,
You push your own healing further down the list.
You postpone your joy.
You mute your own voice to make room for someone else’s indecision.

No more.

Let them wonder where the access went.
Let them feel the weight of your absence.
Let them carry the consequences of their silence, their harm, their neglect.

You are not a holding pattern. You are a whole person.

💬 I Affirm:

• I am no longer a resting place for people who bring chaos.

• I do not sit in silence while others decide if I am worthy.

• I am not waiting to be chosen—I choose myself.

• My love is not a loan. My presence is not guaranteed.

• I protect my time, energy, and spirit like the sacred things they are.

• I release people who only come around when it’s convenient for them.

• I am not afraid to be unavailable.

• My boundaries are a reflection of my healing.

• I do not carry people who refused to walk with me.

• I am done holding space for people who refuse to grow.

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When you stop waiting for people who never show up, your healing finally arrives.