“The function, the very serious function of racism is distraction. It keeps you from doing your work. It keeps you explaining, over and over again, yo
“The function, the very serious function of racism is distraction. It keeps you from doing your work. It keeps you explaining, over and over again, your reason for being.” Toni Morrison
Mistreatment often tries to make the harmed person turn inward in the wrong way. Not inward for wisdom. Not inward for healing. Inward for self-interrogation.
“Was I wrong?”
“Did I imagine it?”
“Am I too sensitive?”
“Do I deserve care?”
“Do I have the right to speak?”
In medical racism, that can become especially dangerous because the person may walk into the room needing treatment and leave with self-doubt instead of care.
Racism, bias, and dismissal often function as distraction. They pull patients away from the urgent work of receiving care and push them into the exhausting labor of proving their pain, their memory, their body, their dignity, and their right to be treated seriously.
When mistreatment enters a medical room, it often tries to make the patient doubt themselves. It can sound polite. It can sound rushed. It can sound like “you’re probably fine,” when your body is telling you something different.
One thing about mistreatment:
The people doing it often want you to doubt yourself.
They want you so busy questioning your tone that you forget what they did.
So busy questioning your memory that you forget the pattern.
So busy questioning your reaction that you forget the impact.
So busy proving you are “fair” that you abandon your own good sense.
Mistreatment loves confusion.
It loves exhaustion.
It loves the moment when you start defending your pain instead of protecting your peace.
But your body noticed.
Your spirit noticed.
Your sleep noticed.
Your appetite noticed.
Your confidence noticed.
Your silence noticed.
These affirmations are for the patient who has had to rehearse their symptoms in the parking lot. The one who wonders whether to bring someone with them so they will be taken seriously. The one who has been called “anxious” when they were actually observant. The one who knows that medical racism, bias, class assumptions, disability bias, LGB, religion, immigration, language, ageism, sexism, and plain old carelessness can all teach a person to question themselves instead of expecting care.
May these words help you stay anchored.
You are not a burden for needing answers.
You are not wrong for wanting care that sees you.
You are not “too much” for protecting your life.
Here are 15 affirmations for SurvivorAffirmations.com, written for people who have faced medical racism, dismissal, rushed appointments, minimization, or treatment that made them question their own body instead of receiving real care.
15 Affirmations for Patients Who Deserve to Be Heard
I know my body from the inside. My lived experience is evidence, not an inconvenience.
I do not have to shrink my concern to make someone else comfortable.
My pain deserves attention before it becomes an emergency.
I am allowed to ask the question again when the answer does not address what I said.
I can be respectful without surrendering my reality.
My symptoms are not “attitude.” My persistence is not “drama.” My concern is not a problem to be managed.
I deserve care that listens before it labels.
I do not have to accept dismissal as diagnosis.
My body is not being difficult. My body is communicating.
I am allowed to bring notes, dates, questions, records, and a witness into the room.
I am allowed to say, “Please document that I asked about this concern.”
I am allowed to seek another opinion without feeling disloyal, ashamed, or afraid.
I do not have to make myself smaller to be considered “cooperative.”
My ancestors survived systems that refused to see them. I honor them by staying with myself, speaking clearly, and seeking the care I need.
I am not asking for special treatment. I am asking for careful treatment, humane treatment, and the kind of attention every patient deserves.
And one final important one: “I will not let dismissal turn me against my own body.”
Racism distracts.
Medical dismissal distracts.
Bias distracts.
Mistreatment distracts.
It pulls a person away from the central truth: my body is asking for care.
Not debate.
Not performance.
Not self-erasure.
I will not let dismissal turn me against my own body. I am worthy of attention, care, respect, and dignity.
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