Survivor Affirmations https://survivoraffirmations.com With every affirmation, we call our power back. Fri, 13 Feb 2026 14:12:43 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.9.1 Survivor Affirmations With every affirmation, we call our power back. false 19 James Baldwin Truths and Affirmations That Still Strengthen the Human Spirit https://survivoraffirmations.com/19-james-baldwin-truths-and-affirmations-that-still-strengthen-the-human-spirit/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=19-james-baldwin-truths-and-affirmations-that-still-strengthen-the-human-spirit Fri, 13 Feb 2026 12:02:43 +0000 https://survivoraffirmations.com/?p=6529 Few voices have spoken to the human condition with the clarity, courage, and compassion of James Baldwin. He did not write to decorate reality. He wrote to reveal it. Across essays, novels, and interviews, Baldwin offered something rare and enduring: a language for truths many people felt but struggled to name. Baldwin understood struggle not […]

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Few voices have spoken to the human condition with the clarity, courage, and compassion of James Baldwin. He did not write to decorate reality. He wrote to reveal it. Across essays, novels, and interviews, Baldwin offered something rare and enduring: a language for truths many people felt but struggled to name.

Baldwin understood struggle not as an abstract concept, but as lived experience. He knew what it meant to wrestle with identity, belonging, fear, love, injustice, and the longing to breathe freely in a world that often resists honesty. Yet what makes his legacy extraordinary is not only what he endured, but how he transformed it. He turned observation into insight. Pain into precision. Anger into illumination. Complexity into unmistakable truth.

To read Baldwin is to encounter a mind fiercely devoted to integrity and a heart deeply invested in humanity. He challenged denial without cruelty. He confronted injustice without surrendering tenderness. He reminded us that truth telling, though uncomfortable, is one of the highest forms of respect — for oneself, for others, and for the future we are shaping together.

This reflection honors James Baldwin not simply as a literary giant, but as a witness to the human spirit. His words continue to steady those finding their voice, those reclaiming their dignity, and those choosing honesty in a world that sometimes rewards silence.

May his courage echo where it is needed most.
May his clarity strengthen those still learning to trust their own knowing.
May his legacy remind us that truth, once spoken, cannot be undone — and that is its power.


1. He survived a childhood shaped by fear and scarcity and still chose truth.
Baldwin grew up in poverty and under severe emotional strain. He did not pretend this away. He transformed it into insight.

Affirmation:
My beginnings do not define my limits.

2. He left the United States to save his spirit, not to escape responsibility.
Moving to Paris gave Baldwin the emotional distance needed to think clearly and write honestly about America.

Affirmation:
Choosing myself is sometimes the most responsible act.

3. He believed naming reality was an act of love.
Baldwin insisted that truth telling was not cruelty. He saw it as care for the future.

Affirmation:
Honesty is one of the highest forms of care.

4. He refused to flatten himself for acceptance.
Baldwin spoke plainly about race, sexuality, faith, masculinity, and power at a time when silence was rewarded.

Affirmation:
I do not need to shrink to belong.

5. He understood that survival includes emotional literacy.
Baldwin wrote about fear, longing, rage, tenderness, and grief with precision and dignity.

Affirmation:
My feelings carry information, not shame.

6. He confronted institutions without surrendering his humanity.
Whether speaking to politicians, journalists, or hostile audiences, Baldwin remained grounded and composed.

Affirmation:
I can speak firmly without abandoning myself.

7. He believed denial was more dangerous than discomfort.
Baldwin warned that societies collapse when they refuse to face what they have done.

Affirmation:
Facing truth protects the future.

8. He valued inner freedom as much as external change.
Baldwin wrote that liberation without inner clarity is fragile.

Affirmation:
My inner freedom matters.

9. He trusted language as a tool for healing and resistance.
Baldwin treated words as instruments that could wound or restore depending on how they were used.

Affirmation:
My words can build safety and strength.

10. His work continues to comfort people who felt unseen.
Readers across generations return to Baldwin not just for critique, but for companionship.

Affirmation:
I am not alone in seeing what others avoid.

11. He turned lived experience into illumination.
Baldwin wrote from the inside of struggle, not from a distance. His work carries the authority of someone who lived what he examined.

Affirmation:
Nothing I have lived is wasted when I give it meaning.

12. He chose distance to gain clarity.
Relocating to Paris was not abandonment. It was self-preservation and creative strategy.

Affirmation:
Creating space for myself can sharpen my voice.

13. He believed truth telling was a moral act.
Baldwin challenged cultures of denial with courage and precision.

Affirmation:
Speaking truth is an act of integrity, even when it shakes others.

14. He wrote about vulnerability without apology.
Long before it was widely accepted, Baldwin explored tenderness, fear, love, and identity.

Affirmation:
My sensitivity is not weakness. It is awareness.

15. He refused easy narratives.
Baldwin rejected oversimplified explanations about race, power, and human behavior.

Affirmation:
I am allowed to hold complex truths.

16. He understood that silence has a cost.
Baldwin warned that what remains unspoken often becomes destructive.

Affirmation:
My voice protects my inner world.

17. He stood firm in rooms built to resist him.
From televised debates to lecture halls, Baldwin carried calm, grounded intensity.

Affirmation:
Steady presence can be more powerful than loudness.

18. He wrote about love as transformation.
For Baldwin, love required honesty, courage, and growth.

Affirmation:
Real love deepens truth. It does not erase it.

19. His words continue to accompany Survivors.
Across decades, readers find recognition, language, and strength in Baldwin’s work.

Affirmation:
Voices rooted in truth outlive opposition.

 

Closing Affirmations:
My voice is allowed to be honest, complex, and enduring. Truth is not too much. It is enough.

My story, my voice, my truth — all worthy, all powerful, all mine.


James Baldwin is so …..charming, attractive, magnetic that we forget that he was a giant in the civil rights movement. He wasn’t detached or aloof. Even if he disagreed with you he was connected and leaned in emotionally. He was fearless. 
Too many today falsely believe that being harsh, horrible, brutish, abusive, vile, and forky tongued, is the way “through”. 
And then there IS James Baldwin still commanding our attention with his words and his way.

Feature Harlem Renaissance James Baldwin / Civil Rights
Primary Decade 1920s 1950s & 1960s
Core Theme Cultural expression & “The New Negro” Systemic racism, morality, & integration
Key Location Specific to Harlem, NYC Global (Harlem, Paris, American South)
Literary Goal To cement Black artistic excellence To force America to confront its “racial nightmare”

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10 Facts About Lift Every Voice and SING! https://survivoraffirmations.com/10-facts-about-lift-every-voice-and-sing/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=10-facts-about-lift-every-voice-and-sing Thu, 05 Feb 2026 18:38:15 +0000 https://survivoraffirmations.com/?p=6524 So my childhood was spent learning this song. We sang this and other songs like it for assemblies. I get out into the world and learn not only have others not heard the song but they see it as “hateful”? Me: But you don’t know anything about it? “Lift Every Voice and Sing” is a […]

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So my childhood was spent learning this song. We sang this and other songs like it for assemblies. I get out into the world and learn not only have others not heard the song but they see it as “hateful”?

Me: But you don’t know anything about it?


“Lift Every Voice and Sing” is a cornerstone of American cultural history, carrying a weight and resonance that has spanned over a century. Often referred to as the Black National Anthem, its journey from a school presentation to a global symbol of resilience is remarkable.

Here are 10 facts about this historic hymn:

Written by Brothers: The lyrics were written as a poem by James Weldon Johnson in 1900. His brother, John Rosamond Johnson, composed the music five years later in 1905. It was written during the era of Jim Crow segregation in the American South.

A Birthday Tribute: It was originally written to honor the anniversary of Abraham Lincoln’s birthday. The song was first performed on February 12, 1900, by a choir of about 500 Black schoolchildren at the segregated Stanton School in Jacksonville, Florida.  James Weldon Johnson was the principal of the segregated Stanton School in Jacksonville, Florida, at the time.

Spiritual Ties: The lyrics draw on biblical imagery, especially the Exodus story, and are both a prayer of thanksgiving to God and a plea for faithfulness, freedom, and perseverance

Adopted by the NAACP: In 1919, the NAACP officially dubbed it the “Negro National Anthem.” James Weldon Johnson would later serve as the organization’s first Black executive secretary.

A Symbol of the Civil Rights Movement: During the 1950s and 60s, the song became a rallying cry. It was frequently sung during marches, meetings, and sit-ins to provide spiritual and emotional strength to activists.

The “Black National Anthem” Title: While widely used, the title “Black National Anthem” was intended to signify a distinct cultural identity and shared struggle, rather than a desire for a separate physical nation.

Musical Structure: The song is a hymn, but it incorporates elements of African American musical traditions, including subtle “blue notes” and a rhythmic build that culminates in a powerful, triumphant finale.

Global Reach: While deeply rooted in the African American experience, its themes of liberty and endurance have seen it translated and performed worldwide, often in solidarity with various liberation movements.

Modern Resurgence: In recent years, the song has seen a massive “mainstream” revival. It has been performed at major televised events like the Super Bowl and the Democratic National Convention, sparking both celebration and national dialogue.

Congressional Recognition: In 2021, U.S. Representative James Clyburn introduced a bill to nominate “Lift Every Voice and Sing” as the national hymn of the United States, further cementing its status in American law and culture.

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Memory does not keep time the way clocks do.
It keeps impact.
It keeps feeling.
It keeps the moments when something inside us recognized truth before our minds had words for it.

That is why so many people remember February not by dates, but by what it felt like when Michael Jackson took hold of the world’s attention and did not flinch from who he was.

When Black or White premiered at the start of February, it wasn’t just a video.
It was a pause.
A collective breath shared across borders, languages, and living rooms.

And when Remember the Time arrived at the edge of February-Black History Month- it carried that same gravity.
It did not need the exact same calendar placement to land in memory the same way.
It arrived with meaning already attached.

That is how memory works.

Michael Jackson understood something many never learn:
universality is not achieved by erasing yourself.
It is achieved by standing fully inside who you are.

We always knew where he came from.

A working-class Black family. A large one. Jehovah’s Witnesses. 
A small house in Detroit.
Siblings stacked close together in shared space and shared dreams.
A childhood shaped by discipline, music, labor, and love.

Those roots were never hidden.
They were the ground beneath everything he built.

He did not run from them.
He carried them with him into stadiums, into studios, into history.

Some people mistook complexity for rejection.

They misread his skin condition instead of learning about it.
They misinterpreted his wide circle of friends as disloyalty.
They confused his love for many cultures with a lack of love for his own.

But the truth was simpler and deeper.

He did not abandon his culture.
He expanded the room.

He showed what it looks like when a Black man is so at home in himself that he can welcome the world without shrinking. (Never said one demeaning word about Black women or men, only put us all in beautiful lights, set us to music, and put us on stages with alongside him)

That confidence unsettled people who needed identity to be narrow, controlled, and easily categorized.
So they rewrote him.
They projected.
They speculated.

Memory, however, kept the truth.

February remembers him not because of a date on a calendar, but because of alignment.

A Black artist holding global attention without apology

African and diasporic imagery centered with beauty and authority

Unity offered without surrender

Love expressed without dilution

That is why people say, “It was February,” even when the math gets fuzzy.

Meaning leaves fingerprints.
Calendars do not.

Michael Jackson had the world in his hands.
And instead of running from who he was, he stood inside it fully.

That is why people from everywhere found themselves in his work.
Not because he became less specific, but because he became more honest.

Memory remembers that.

Not the date.
Not the broadcast schedule.

But the moment when truth met timing and stayed.

P.S. And hell yeah, I’m feeling Jossie Harris Thacker. Because if I had danced with the Janet Jackson (That’s the Way Love Goes) and the Michael Jackson in REMEMBER THE TIME…

No Sir. No Ma’am. You could not tell me nothing ever again.

She did not say that exactly ……but I would. LOL.  (which is probably why it was not my blessing. lol.)

As Shaylynn, @mjsaura on X.com points out ….in a time when Black women were STILL as underrepresented as we are now, Michael Jackson cast Black women not just as background dancers and singers, but as his love interests, his queen, long lost love, the “girl next door” and the woman that he was in pursuit of.
He showed all cultures on this planet love and adoration, but he never failed to showcase the love and beauty of his home culture.


Remember the Time Facts

  • Premiered late January 1992 with heavy prime-time rotation spilling into early February

  • Cinematic scale, ancient African imagery, and unapologetic Black brilliance
  • Premiered as a high-profile TV event in the U.S., heavily coordinated across major networks and MTV

  • Closely tied to Super Bowl weekend attention and prime-time placement

  • Felt like a cultural takeover, even if it wasn’t a single worldwide clock-strike moment

While its official premiere date is generally cited as January 31, 1992, many people experienced it during the opening days of February due to:

  • Saturation airplay

  • Prime-time scheduling

  • Super Bowl–adjacent media attention

 

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Life Calls Us to Evolve Culturally Too: Sinners Dancers Revealed !! Juke Joint Scene Explained — Dance Styles, Symbolism & Forgotten History https://survivoraffirmations.com/life-calls-us-to-evolve-culturally-too-sinners-dancers-revealed-juke-joint-scene-explained-dance-styles-symbolism-forgotten-history/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=life-calls-us-to-evolve-culturally-too-sinners-dancers-revealed-juke-joint-scene-explained-dance-styles-symbolism-forgotten-history Fri, 23 Jan 2026 10:28:55 +0000 https://survivoraffirmations.com/?p=6389 Life does not call us to evolve through advancements in technology only. Life calls us to evolve culturally as well.  Without cultural evolution: speed grows, but wisdom stays small tools multiply, but tenderness thins systems scale, but souls shrink harm becomes efficient instead of rare Culture is where we learn: how to protect the vulnerable […]

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Life does not call us to evolve through advancements in technology only. Life calls us to evolve culturally as well. 

Without cultural evolution:

Ingrid Silva

  • speed grows, but wisdom stays small
  • tools multiply, but tenderness thins
  • systems scale, but souls shrink
  • harm becomes efficient instead of rare

Culture is where we learn:

  • how to protect the vulnerable
  • how to live with difference without domination
  • how to tell the truth without turning it into a weapon
  • how to measure success by who is still whole at the end

Here is where one learns to cultivate moral weather — the atmosphere people breathe while deciding who matters.

That is a different kind of innovation:

  • evolving language so Survivors are not made to feel criminal for needing safety
  • evolving stories so Black life is treated as art, not content
  • evolving norms so women’s boundaries are seen as intelligence, not inconvenience
  • evolving care so protection is practical, not performative

A society that upgrades its machines but not its conscience only becomes more dangerous.

But a society that evolves its culture:

  • invents technology with restraint
  • builds systems with memory
  • creates power with accountability
  • and leaves room for the human nervous system to survive inside progress

That is not slow work.

That is the deepest form of advancement.

Technology can extend our reach.
But culture is what teaches our hands what not to take.
It teaches our mouths what not to say.
It teaches our power where to kneel.

Black culture is structural to America.

Not as decoration.
Not as trend.
Not as a “contribution.”

Structural

It shaped:

  • the nation’s music before the nation had a conscience
  • its language before it admitted whose mouth it came from
  • its sense of rhythm, humor, style, resistance, mourning, and joy
  • its very idea of “cool,” long before the word was profitable

There is no area of American culture that is not braided with Black culture.

And deeper than influence is function:

Black culture has been one of this country’s primary moral technologies.

It taught how to survive when systems were designed to erase.
How to make beauty under pressure.
How to encode memory when history was censored.
How to pass truth through song, food, gesture, hair, church, laughter, cadence, silence.

It carried:

  • warning systems
  • grief rituals
  • protection codes
  • dignity when the law refused it
  • human interiority when society tried to flatten it

That is not aesthetic.

That is civilization work.

When Black culture is dismissed, what is really being dismissed is:

  • intellectual authorship
  • emotional architecture
  • ethical labor
  • and the right to be seen as creators of meaning, not just producers of style

America’s technological future will be shallow if it forgets the cultures that taught it how to be human under conditions of extreme inhumanity.

Black culture doesn’t just belong in America.

It is one of the reasons America learned how to endure itself.

That kind of remembering is cultural infrastructure.
It holds nations together longer than steel.


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Alberta Hunter’s life was a testament to the power of the “unpolished” authentic soul. She was a woman who conquered the world’s stages, walked away to spend twenty years quietly nursing the sick, and then returned to her art in her eighties with more grit, humor, and truth than ever before.

Her quote reminds us that technical perfection is often a mask, and that the most profound truths come from those who have lived them, not just studied them.

Here are a few affirmations inspired by her journey and that specific, hilarious and grounded wisdom:

  • I trust the wisdom that was forged in the fire of my own life. I do not need a title or outside validation to be an expert on my own survival.

  • My raw truth is more valuable than a polished lie. I give myself permission to be unrefined, as long as I am honest.

  • There is dignity in every season of my life. Whether I am center-stage or quietly tending to the needs of others, my worth remains unshakable.

  • I value the “musicians” in my life who lead with their hearts. I surround myself with people who understand the language of feeling, not just the language of power.

  • It is never too late for my second act. Like the blues, my voice only grows deeper and more resonant with time.

  • I do not need to “know all about” the rules to play my own song. My intuition is a more reliable guide than the expectations of a system that wasn’t built for me.

  • I build from what I know to be true in my bones. I honor the “socialized bottom” within myself—the parts of me that are humble, resilient, and deeply human.

Alberta Hunter proved that you can lose everything—your fame, your youth, your platform—and still possess the one thing the world can’t teach: soul, baby, SOUL!

Know who you are.

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Black Culture is SO Beautiful https://survivoraffirmations.com/black-culture-is-so-beautiful/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=black-culture-is-so-beautiful Tue, 13 Jan 2026 16:49:39 +0000 https://survivoraffirmations.com/?p=6229 Black culture is truly a wonderful vibe. Being Black is a beautiful blessing I wouldn’t trade for anything in the world! Dear God, thank You for the gift of Blackness. 🙏🏾#BlackCulture #BlackPeople #BlackLife #BlackJoy #BlackLove pic.twitter.com/cmpDtnL9Iy — Black, Beautiful, & Blessed (@MelanatedTalk) January 13, 2026 For no reason. Because Black culture is so beautiful. Aesthetics. […]

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For no reason.

Because Black culture is so beautiful.

Aesthetics.

Resilience,

Creativity,

and community that have built the world rather than tearing it down.

Spiritual traditions

Healing vibes.

Innovative

Uplifting 

and ever-evolving language

Artistry

Black culture.

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Gratitude to the Humanity of Lynn Jones: When “Professionalism” Is Used as a Shield https://survivoraffirmations.com/gratitude-to-the-humanity-of-lynn-jones-when-professionalism-is-used-as-a-shield/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=gratitude-to-the-humanity-of-lynn-jones-when-professionalism-is-used-as-a-shield Tue, 13 Jan 2026 13:17:05 +0000 https://survivoraffirmations.com/?p=6187 Now why are you all (journalists) behaving like toddlers? We had a toddler visit us and I forgot what it was like. I accidently sat on Mickey (the stuffed animal) and she acted like I killed him dead. I turned the channel because I wasn’t used to her being there so I picked up my […]

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Now why are you all (journalists) behaving like toddlers?

We had a toddler visit us and I forgot what it was like.

I accidently sat on Mickey (the stuffed animal) and she acted like I killed him dead.

I turned the channel because I wasn’t used to her being there so I picked up my remote and turned to my channel and she went off.

We were in the car. No Wifi in some spots. No Youtube videos. Another tantrum. 

Sing her song when she doesn’t want you to sing it. Tantrum.

But those are babies. They just got here. You give them love, snacks, a nap, time alone, or a juice box and they reset. 


We should be embarrassed as a country that words of kindness are a “breaking viral news” moment. Thankfully, women like Lynn Jones are a standard in my culture. Wind beneath our weary wings. 

As it so happens this conversation grabbed me. My bachelors degree is in Organizational Management and Development-it is a degree that helps businesses to see people are every businesses greatest asset. For all the complaints about AI, what Lynn Jones did is what no machine can do without the aid of a human being.

She read the room. She read the person. She was human. She was humane. 

We’ve all seen these “journalists” being intentionally cruel. Who was that that asked the player who just lost his parent or grandparent where he was spending Thanksgiving knowing full well he just lost them? The player immediately zoned out. 

Not only did Coach Liam Coen need that, the country needed that. The calls against “unprofessional” behavior are telling on “professionalism”. You’re telling us that it was never meant to be humane. That it is simply a gatekeeper against human beings and their natural human behavior. Exposed.

And to the women journalists….but for women like Lynn Jones daring to step across lines that never made sense in first place, none of you would be where you are nor wearing what you get to wear.


 If you can only perform your job exactly as you were “trained” and “taught”, you are easily replaceable.

-Tonya GJ Prince

In many spaces, “professionalism” is spoken of as virtue.

Calm.
Controlled.
Polished.
Contained.

But Survivors learn something early:

Sometimes professionalism is not about care.
It is about distance.

It can become a shield people use to avoid:

  • sitting with pain
  • acknowledging harm
  • witnessing truth
  • or feeling what has already cost someone dearly to survive

And this lands hardest on the same people again and again:

  • Black women, women across the Black diaspora, women from many Asian cultures, and other women whose cultures taught them to carry pain quietly, where emotional restraint is often mistaken for strength and silence is mistaken for maturity 
  • neurodivergent people
  • Survivors who still have a living nervous system
  • Survivors who dare to feel out loud

When we speak plainly.
When our voices carry memory.
When our bodies respond honestly.
When our emotions do not arrive in tidy paragraphs.

We are told:

“Tone it down.”
“Be more professional.”
“Be objective.”
“Be easier to digest.”

But what they often mean is:

Make your humanity smaller so others can stay comfortable.

Even in Survivor spaces.

Especially there.

And that can cut deeper than silence.

Because healing was never meant to require emotional erasure.
Safety was never meant to demand numbness.
Truth was never meant to be filtered through someone else’s tolerance.

So here is your reminder:

Your feelings are not a flaw.
Your nervous system is not an inconvenience.
Your honesty is not unprofessional.

You do not have to sand down your soul to be taken seriously.

You do not have to become quiet to be worthy of care.

You do not have to perform calm to deserve safety.

Some people use “professionalism” to hide from their own unfinished healing.

You are not required to join them there.

You are allowed to be whole.

You are allowed to be seen.

You are allowed to feel — even in rooms that forgot how.

And you are still dignified.
Still wise.
Still credible.
Still sacred.


**And some of these critics have zero empathy of women being punched in the face by men declaring themselves to women, no regard for girls losing to boys or men. So empathy and courage is not their strong muscle. This opens a much needed conversation about how cruel journalists have been to players. Serena, Venus, and others. Empathy and compassion has been lacking for a very long time.

**Speaking of Venus and Serena, they have been telling us the name of the game in sports journalism is to be cruel to athletes since they were children (through their father). Lynn Jones broke that toy and now you see tantrums that outrank toddlers by far.


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Your Authentic Voice Belongs In This Season https://survivoraffirmations.com/your-authentic-voice-belongs-in-this-season/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=your-authentic-voice-belongs-in-this-season Sat, 03 Jan 2026 05:59:30 +0000 https://survivoraffirmations.com/?p=6168 There is something I’ve noticed across history — and I feel it stirring again. Whenever those in power get too big, too loud, too controlling…whenever they forget the people, forget compassion, forget humility… That’s not the moment to lose hope. That’s the moment to pay attention. Because that’s when something new starts breathing under the […]

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There is something I’ve noticed across history — and I feel it stirring again.

Whenever those in power get too big, too loud, too controlling…
whenever they forget the people, forget compassion, forget humility…

That’s not the moment to lose hope.

That’s the moment to pay attention.

Because that’s when something new starts breathing under the surface.

Think about it.

Motown didn’t show up in gentle times.
Ray Charles didn’t rewrite music in peaceful comfort.
Hip hop wasn’t born in safety, luxury, and applause.

Those movements rose from neglect, exclusion, boarded-up communities, broken promises — places where people were told:

“You don’t belong at the table.”

And so they built their own table.

They tuned the guitars.
They turned crates into stages.
They wrote lyrics in the dark when nobody was watching.

They created because survival needed a song.

Every time power drifts too far from everyday people, a quiet shift happens:

Real talent steps forward.
Real truth starts humming.
Real voices refuse to disappear.

I look at the world now — 2026 rising — and I don’t just see chaos or noise.

I see seeds.

I see a turning.

People are tired of being manipulated, measured, algorithmed, follower counted, and sold to. “Dang it, we are people.”
They’re craving what can’t be faked:

skill
spirit
discipline
heart
story
presence

We may see more small stages, living-room concerts, local showcases, choirs, poetry circles, neighborhood storytellers, community radio, homemade documentaries, humble projects with deep soul.

Because when the machine feels too cold,
people return to the fire.

And if you are a Survivor — listen closely:

Your voice belongs in this season.

Not polished perfect.
Not filtered and forced.

Truthful.

Weathered.

Loving.

Everything you survived has given you:

eyes that see deeper
hands that carry tenderness
a heart that knows when something is fake
and a spirit that refuses to bow to lies

History shows us:

When power overplays its hand,
the people remember who they are.

And every time that happens,
the world gets new music,

new art,
new vision,
new courage,
new hope.

I’m rooting for you.
I’m grateful for your voice.
And I’m excited for what’s coming next.

Because we’ve been here before.

And look what we created last time.

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Artist Jossie Harris Thacker: Building On Where You Come From — Without Going To War With It https://survivoraffirmations.com/artist-jossie-harris-thacker-building-on-where-you-come-from-without-going-to-war-with-it/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=artist-jossie-harris-thacker-building-on-where-you-come-from-without-going-to-war-with-it Mon, 29 Dec 2025 06:05:28 +0000 https://survivoraffirmations.com/?p=6156 Some of us were taught that “healing” means disowning everything that shaped us. The accent.The neighborhood.The elders.The songs.The faith.The grit.The way we survived. But healing isn’t about waging war on the very ground that held us up when nothing else did. Survival was not a flaw.Survival was a blessing.Survival was wisdom gathered under pressure. The […]

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Some of us were taught that “healing” means disowning everything that shaped us.

The accent.
The neighborhood.
The elders.
The songs.
The faith.
The grit.
The way we survived.

But healing isn’t about waging war on the very ground that held us up when nothing else did.

Survival was not a flaw.
Survival was a blessing.
Survival was wisdom gathered under pressure.

The work now is different:

  • We keep what is strong.

  • We set down what is harmful.

  • We learn new ways without shaming the old ones.

Because while we’re busy rejecting our foundation, there are always others quietly studying it, borrowing from it, profiting from it — and praising themselves for “discovering” what our grandmothers already knew.

You deserve to grow without erasing yourself.

You deserve to rise without apologizing for your roots.

You deserve to heal without rewriting your story as shame.

Your history is not your enemy.
Your history is the soil.

And soil can be enriched, tended, watered — not destroyed.


Affirmations

  • I honor the people and places that carried me this far.

  • I bless what helped me survive and release what no longer serves me.

  • My roots are not a burden — they are strength, memory, and guidance.

  • I build forward with gratitude, clarity, and confidence.

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This Is Why I Study Our Art — Deeply, Tenderly, Proudly https://survivoraffirmations.com/this-is-why-i-study-our-art-deeply-tenderly-proudly/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=this-is-why-i-study-our-art-deeply-tenderly-proudly Sun, 28 Dec 2025 04:50:13 +0000 https://survivoraffirmations.com/?p=6151 There comes a time when I grow beyond saying: “That’s just old.” “Just something from back then.” “Just music, just fashion, just dancing.” No. Our art is memory. Our art is survival.Our art is intelligence carried through rhythm, color, fabric, voice, and movement. When I study our cultural art — not casually, but with depth […]

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There comes a time when I grow beyond saying:

“That’s just old.”
“Just something from back then.”
“Just music, just fashion, just dancing.”

No.

Our art is memory.

Bessie Smith Big Mama Thornton and Muddy Waters


Our art is survival.
Our art is intelligence carried through rhythm, color, fabric, voice, and movement.

When I study our cultural art — not casually, but with depth — I begin to see what so many others already discovered in us:

Depth.
Wisdom.
Imagination.
Spiritual power.
Joy that refuses to die.

Other cultures have been watching our work for generations:

They slow down with it.
They study it.
They protect it.
They let it add meaning not only to their art — but to their lives.

Meanwhile, many of us were taught to dismiss it:

“That’s outdated.”

“That’s embarrassing.”
“That doesn’t matter anymore.”

But as I mature, I understand:

That art carried emotions we weren’t allowed to speak.
That music held prayers no one wrote down.
Those dances helped bodies remember freedom.
Those films and fashions recorded how we loved, dreamed, grieved, and survived.

Our art was never “just entertainment.”

It was medicine when medicine wasn’t available.
It was dignity when the world tried to strip it away.
It was community, language, courage, humor, grief, and hope.

And it still is.


And I remind myself:

There is no need for me to feel lost
when I can look back at the ones who lived before me.

Their lives are lessons.
Their art is guidance.

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Their creativity lights the path forward.

I choose not to resist those lessons.
I receive them.
I let them teach me who I come from, and who I can become.


Affirmation

I honor the art that shaped my people.
I study it with curiosity and respect.
I will not minimize what carried us through the storm.

I let myself feel the music.
Feel the paintings.
Feel the films.
Feel the dances — deeply, without shame.

Others already recognize brilliance in us —
and I choose to recognize it too.

Our culture is not frozen in time.
It is a living river.

When I learn from it, I find:

  • grounding

  • creativity

  • identity

  • meaning

  • connection

Everything I need isn’t far away.

It is right here — in my inheritance, my memory, my art.

I am done resisting what was meant to bless me.
I am growing.
I am rooted.
I am proud.

Our art is worthy.

And so am I.

How Black American Culture Dominated Google’s 2025 Search Bar

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